If you want to design your own life style by yourself. You have to make it more into an action. The best way to do it is to make your own bucket list.
It could be anything no matter big or small goals. If you just start to have your own bucket list. I recommend you to make 10 things that you think you could achieve in a week such as ,
- I will to cook green curry.
-I will make 10 basketball shot in a row.
- I will run 10 rounds nonstop.
Then check it every week! Cross all the list that you make them and write the reason on goals that you could not make it.